Community Resources

Your guide to kink-friendly businesses and more…


Manhattan Alternative is a network of therapeutic service providers in New York City who are sex-positive, affirmative, and have expertise related to issues that kink, poly, consensually non-monogamous, trans, gender non-conforming, and/or LGBQ-identified individuals face.

The Gender & Sexuality Therapy Collective

The Gender & Sexuality Therapy Collective is a New York City based group of psychotherapists providing a wide range of services, including psychotherapy, supervision, workshops, and consultation focusing on gender, sex and sexuality.

Dulcinea Pitagora, LMSW, CST

I offer affirming psychotherapy and sex therapy for individuals, couples, multiple-partner relationships, and poly and leather families. I welcome people of every ability, age, gender, national origin, race/ethnicity, religious affiliation, and sexual orientation. I specialize in working with adults in the kink, poly, trans, GNC/NB, LGBQ, and sex work communities.

Dr. Marty Klein

Dr. Marty Klein has been a Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist and Certified Sex Therapist for 35 years. He has focused his entire career toward a single set of goals: telling the truth about sexuality, helping people feel sexually adequate & powerful, and supporting the healthy sexual expression and exploration of women and men.

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Dungeon Delights
Dungeon Delights was founded to build and provide amazing kinky fabrications right here in our Arizona shop; we build all of our custom bondage restraints, dungeon furniture, bondage suspension fixtures, puppy cages and all of our wonderful toys right here in the great U.S.A. from scratch

eXtreme Restraints
Due to a passion for the scene, the play, and the people, eXtremeRestraints has been selling a wide variety of popular and niche adult toys since 2000. Along with the classics, we offer products that are unique in design and function to inspire creative use.

Fetters is one of the world’s leading fetish and BDSM suppliers, manufacturing and sourcing unique products with customers around the world. Browse our extensive catalogue restraints, hoods, fetish wear, sex toys and bondage accessories

The Leather Man
Serving the fetish community for more than 50 years. Still located on Christopher Street, our customers come from all over the world to shop with us. Widely regarded as New York City’s best source for S/M-leather-fetish clothing and gear.

Mr. B
Mr. B offers an extensive collection of leather and rubber clothing the highest quality products. Their ship includes toys for men range and many other accessories such as whips cuffs, toys, lubricants, and condoms plus many more items. They specialize in quality of choice.

Mr. S Leather
Exceptional bondage gear, bdsm, sex toys, and fetish clothing since 1979. All of our bondage, leather, neoprene and rubber gear is made right here in the heart of San Francisco.

Medical Toys
Medical Fetish Online Shop and Complete Information Library, How-To Source for Institutional Bondage, Enemas, Sounds Sets,Sensory Deprivation, Gags, Muzzles,and buy the unique adult toys you’ve seen in movies, videos and on-line

We manufacture leather and metal accessories for wholesale and retail businesses.

Purple Passion is the website and online store for Purple Passion/DV8, New York City’s premier BDSM, fetish clothing and adult toy store for men and women. We carry a wide selection of latex and leather clothing, corsets, boots/shoes, restraints, bondage equipment, rope, vibrators, sex toys, and much more.

Serious Kit
SeriousKit products are designed to help you develop your play. 21st century materials mean that our equipment is equally at home in a steamy wet room as in a traditional dungeon. Our designs utilize materials such as aluminium, silicone rubber & stainless steel so that you can play without limit.

The Stockroom is the original internet source for quality sex toys, online and selling to tech-savvy fans of kink since 1990. We are now in our 27th year selling sex toys, bondage gear and restraints online, catering to the whole spectrum, from the curious novice to the extreme bdsm player.

The Sub Shop has been making shopping for Bondage, Fetish and Adult toys safe, comfortable, easy and fun for hundreds of thousands of fun people around the world.

Twisted Monk
The most trusted name in bondage rope since 2004. Accept no imitations. Proud to be the premiere name in ethically-sourced, environmentally sound bondage rope.


Male Chastity

Behind Bars
Handcrafted Chastity Belts & Bespoke Metalwork. Built in the UK by Master Craftsmen. Let us bring your fantasies to life!

Captive by Design
Custom titanium chastity. *Still a prototype*

Carrara Designs
Our chastity products are made with great care, and are handcrafted. They are thus a little piece of art. Most probably, no two identically shaped belts exist, since they are made on your given sizes.

Custom Chastity
No matter what size you are from 1’/2.5cm to over 10’/25cm we design and make male chastity devices that are for 24/7/365 secure and comfortable wear.

Evotion Wearables
We have designed a range of products to meet everyone’s needs. Whether you need to pass through security, exercise, endure prolonged periods of lock-up, or simply have difficult-to-fit anatomy, we’ve got you covered.

Holy Trainer
Male chastity device manufacturer. If you are looking for an effective and very discreet chastity device, the HolyTrainer offers you incredible comfort and total safety during use, even over a long period.

Mature Metal
We have been conducting research and development for many years to develop the most comfortable and secure male stainless steel chastity devices in the world. This is not just an off-the-shelf chastity site. We custom craft every single one of the devices to the customer’s specifications – without the high price tags.

Stainless Steel Chastity Belts for Females, Males and She-Males.

The workshop is dark. Slabs of raw steel and titanium rest in the shadows, a few rough sketches scatter across a worktable, and suddenly banks of machinery hum to life… This is when the real magic begins: CAD drawing, 3D programming, CNC machining, laser welding… and from a simple piece of metal, your fantasy emerges. Meticulous hand finishing will complete the process, illuminating the gleaming contours of pleasure and control.

We are a manufacturer of Chastity Belts and BDSM-Toys made of Steel and Stainless Steel “Made in Germany”. Our High Quality devices are very solid and handcrafted. We are able to turn your individual requirements or ideas into reality!

Red Chili Chastity Devices
Custom made male chastity devices by RED CHILI. We send everywhere in the world from our workshops based in France and Spain.

Rigid Chastity

We are a small family company. In our workshop we produce short runs of stainless steel parts for industry and custom workshops. We are also kinksters who enjoy male chastity play over 10 years. We opened this store to help other couples like we to fulfil desires. Custom projects are welcome 🙂


Babes are a micro-company who have been making the world’s best strap-ons from our studio since 1993. We have over 50 different sized hand made silicone dildos in our collection, from teeny tiny to frankly humongous so we are sure we will have the perfect fit for you.

Horny toys for horny boys and men! Guaranteed Authentic Pleasure! Proudly making holes happy around the world.

Fun Factory
Fun Factory GmbH is a German manufacturer of erotic toys, specializing in silicone dildos, vibrators, and love balls

Je Joue
For the best rabbit vibrator, kegel balls, G spot vibrator or Cock Ring available find the perfect sex toy at Je Joue.

Jimmy Jane
Award Winning Sex Toys, the Best Luxury Vibrators online, Cock Rings, Dildos & Luxury Adult Products. At Jimmyjane we believe life is better with a sexy twist!

Swedish designer brand and the world’s leading provider of intimate lifestyle products, covering bedroom accessories, high-quality pleasure objects and luxurious massage candles and oils.

Mr. Hankey Toys
The worlds finest handmade dildos made from the finest platinum silicone. Mr. Hankey’s Toys specializes in large, huge and giant silicone dildos.

The Pleasure Chest
Since 1971, The Pleasure Chest has firmly believed that everyone has a fundamental right to pursue sexual fulfillment. With stores in New York, Chicago & Los Angeles, we offer every customer a specialized shopping experience in a judgment-free environment and a huge variety of products

Ox Balls
OXBALLS…dick toys, butt toys, gags, puppy stuff…I’m Ox, the twisted guy that makes the toys that make your dick drip and your sex more fun

Square Peg
SquarePegToys® is a producer of erotic art objects, sculptures out of silicone, dildos and masturbation toys. Inside you will find pictures of each custom.

Tantus is a company that produces silicone sex toys, including vibrators, dildos, butt-plugs and strap-on harness kits. They are based in Sparks, Nevada, and are the largest producer of silicone sex toys in the United States.

UnBound Babes
Sexual lifestyle goods for orgasm enthusiasts everywhere.

We-Vibe designs and creates premium sensual lifestyle products including the best-selling couples vibrator.

Atsuko Kudo
Atsuko Kudo designs and manufactures a full range of ladies wear exclusively in latex rubber. All of our garments and accessories are available in a wide variety of plain colors and uniquely patterned prints.

Baroness Latex
New York’s Premier Designer of Elegant, Provocative Fashions for men and woman both off the peg and custom designs.

Black Style
Fetish Fashion from Berlin

Catalyst Latex
Real Clothes in Rubber. Latex clothing for all.

Dawnamatrix is a USA-based latex fashion designer specializing in bespoke handcrafted latex fashion and rubber couture. Across our various pages you will find the full range of our latex garments and accessories, social media connections, our blog, and full contact information.

Dead Lotus Couture
Dead Lotus Couture’s identity is borne of an emotional world, comprising sinuous, sensual shapes that reveal a dark spiky elegance with a sophisticated touch. Each item is specifically designed to caress and accentuate your body shape at its best, transporting you to a parallel universe of imaginative and surreal beauty.

Demask is the worlds leading Kinky, Pervy Rubber & Leather Company helping to accomplish your Biggest, Bizarrest Fetish and Fantasy Dreams for over 30 years.

DUDEA Latex, the manufacturer of clothes using natural latex without any chemistry. DUDEA Latex is extremely soft and sensitive to your skin and makes you hot. In our shop you find latex clothes for erotic, clinic & adult play and our sweet rubber pussies for transformation.

Fantastic Rubber
Fantastic Rubber is an award winning German company that specializes in custom made and measured latex catsuits, corsets, and accessories

Quality latex masks from Berlin. We offer original and unique masks. Our designer places the highest value on an attractive and exciting look in her designs

Heavy Rubber Shop
Our store has his main focus on latex and rubber bondage. Of course we will help you with leather, lacquer/PVC and adult baby too

House of Etiquette
The leading Independent designer brand of latex clothing for the discerning latex lover. Our latex clothing is designed and handmade to order in Canada.

House of Harlot
House of Harlot Latex fashion design for women. Our exclusive collection of latex rubber catsuits, latex dresses, latex skirts, latex tops and accessories handmade in our London studio.

HW Design
HW Design is hand-made latex clothing producer based in Vienna Austria, founded in 1999. Their creative team exist of professional designers and specialized tailors, who are trained by one of Vienna’s leading design school.

Invincible Rubber
Mens rubber-latex specialist Invincible Rubber now in it’s 25th year has been serving the fetish community with a tantalizing collection of men’s latex rubber underwear, shorts, t-shirts, jackets, catsuits, surf suits, uniforms, bondage and accessories. We’re a professionally run company & have earned the reputation of being rubber specialists.

Jane Doe Latex
Having begun in London, England in 2005 by Model/Actress Nina Kate, Jane Doe has always been at the forefront of cutting edge latex design. Every item is hand made to order by expert hands with over 16 years experience, using only the highest quality products.

Lady Lucie Latex
Lady Lucie creates beautiful, immaculate latex fashion. From clothing and lingerie to corsets and costumes, Lady Lucie specialises in elegant, glamorous & fun pieces that make the wearer look & feel beautiful.

Latex Catfish
Manufacturer of latex clothing, cosplay, dance fetish and costume products and gear.

Marquis Latex Fashion
Unique Latex garments. Workshop and Boutique.

A proud Canadian designer and manufacturer of quality latex garments since 1995.

Rubber Eva
Here you will find all things fetish from ballgags to body-bags! and everything in between. Most, if not all of the items here have been either hand picked or designed by Rubber Eva and many used on our various websites for photo shoots, videos and films.

Rubber’s Finest
We are a company that has specialized on manufacturing innovated products for the Latex community.
In our studio near Duesseldorf we produce moulded latexmasks in new designs and highest quality.

Regulation Rubber
Regulation has over 25 years experience in manufacturing and retailing male fetish clothing & accessories in the UK.

Shhh Couture Latex<
Shhh! Couture Latex is a UK based latex clothing brand specializing in exciting, fashion forward and geek-inspired designs.

Simon O.
High quality latex clothing since 1996. Latex catsuits and latex leggings made to measure. Latex clothing with express production – discreet shipping.

Studio Gum
STUDIO GUM offers since 1990 a large sortiment of Heavy Rubber Masks, Bondage Suits and Heavy Rubber Accessories. We send our Latex Products world wide!

Handcrafted, contemporary latex fashions for men & women for the street, runway, and silver screen since 1992.

Tableaux Vivants
A high-end latex clothing line that looks to elevate latex to a more fashion-forward stratosphere.

Twist My Rubber Arm
Twist My Rubber Arm specializes in latex/rubber clothing such as latex masks. rubber pants, rubber suits, etc. for men and women along with an a wide selection of toys.

Vex Clothing, Inc. specializes in imaginative custom latex clothing. Our mission is to supply custom latex attire to a world of unique and distinct individuals.


Aslan Leather
Superior Strap on harness & bondage toys designed for your pleasure!

Fleet Ilya
A visionary design brand centred around excellence in the construction of leather.

Melissa Tofton Leather
LEATHER + BODYWEAR FOR A POST-SHAME WORLD Consciously sourced, Proudly & ethically handcrafted in Berlin from materials formed by nature

North Bound Leather
Canada’s Premier Fetish and Fashion Design House. Northbound was the first retailer to bring leather and fetish apparel and accessories to a larger audience on a global scale since 1994

Adultbaby Shop, AB-DL specialist in the north of Germany, we provide many different products from high quality manufacturers

Custom garter belts, bras, harnesses, and chokers made to measure in New York by Yeha Leung and Alejandro Lafontant. Lingerie that clashes femininity with fetishism

Coco de Mer
London’s Coco de Mer: collectors and creators of the finest lingerie and erotica.

The Sissy Store
House-made creations made by a large team of very experienced seamstresses! A modern workshops in Thailand allows us to produce high-quality items, with fabulous quality materials and top workmanship with seamstresses with 20+ years sewing and cutting experience; but at low prices!

Winter Fetish
Exclusive manufacturer of Darlex bondage-ware and fetish-wear in spandex, PVC, and sexy stretch mesh


Broadly is a website and digital video channel devoted to representing the multiplicity of women’s experiences. Through original reporting and documentary film, we provide a sustained focus on the issues that matter most to women.

Bustle is for and by women who are moving forward as fast as you are.

Hey Epiphora
For over a decade, I’ve been testing sex toys and writing about them on the internet. Highly trusted and well-known for my snarky yet authentic style, I am the antidote to the coy, euphemistic sugar-coating that plagues bad sex writing.

Oh Joy Sex Toy
Oh Joy Sex Toy updates weekly and covers a wide spectrum of the world of sex; from sex toy reviews to sex education to interviews with sex industry professionals and more.

Slutever is a website that deals predominantly with sexuality and relationships.

Amplifying the voices of Witches, Sluts, & Feminists.

Slutty Girl Problems
A slut is a woman who is confident and sexually empowered. She is in control of her sexuality and her choices. She doesn’t let anyone define her or her sexuality. She defines herself. Slutty Girl Problems is for young women who embrace this empowered lifestyle.

Dr. NerdLove
Harris O’Malley (AKA Dr. NerdLove) is an internationally recognized blogger and dating coach who gives dating advice to geeks of all stripes.

The Beautiful Kind
The Beautiful Kind is a sex-positive community blog led by Kendra Holliday.

Tits and Sass is a group blog run by sex workers who saw a void when it came to witty commentary on the public image of our industry.

Collectivo Intercultural TRANSgrediendo
The TRANSgrediendo Intercultural Collective is recognized nationally as a bilingual and multicultural movement that defends and promotes the Human Rights of Trans * people and with gender-diverse identities in the US, promotes active participation and democracy in all its forms, for the incidence in decision making and the full exercise of their rights, thus achieving, to build fairer and more inclusive societies, for all without any discrimination.

G.L.I.T.S. approaches the health and rights crises faced by transgender sex workers holistically using harm reduction, human rights principles, economic and social justice, along with a commitment to empowerment and pride in finding solutions from our own community. The first issue they address is that of immediate need/crisis support for transgender sex workers, including community members from the NYC area, across the US and globally through supporting asylum seekers from our priority communities.

International Whores’ Day
IWD is an event that started in Lyon, France in 1975 when over 100 sex workers protested the violence and police brutality targeting their livelihood. In 2020, with the Internet now a site of displacement and resistance, we are protesting the state violence, racism, and stigma-based discrimination that still targets our working communities.

Lysistrata is an online based, community run sex worker mutual care collective. As people in the industry, we understand how exploitation plays into our field, like any other job, because sex work is WORK! Our goals are to protect our autonomy and decision making while also acknowledging that there are people who have lesser access to making choices about their involvement in this industry, to protect folks who have chosen this industry for any number of reasons and to protect folks who didn’t by working together as a collective to provide education, exchange life saving information, and provide access to resources.

Red Canary Song
Red Canary Song centers base building with migrant workers through a labor rights framework and mutual aid. We believe that full decriminalization is necessary for labor organizing and anti-trafficking.  #RightsNotRaids #SexWorkIsWork

Sex Workers Project
The Sex Workers Project provides client-centered legal and social services to individuals who engage in sex work, regardless of whether they do so by choice, circumstance, or coercion. One of the first programs in the nation to assist survivors of human trafficking, the Sex Workers Project has pioneered an approach to service grounded in human rights, harm reduction and in the real life experiences of our clients

SWOP USA || SWOP Bronx || SWOP Brooklyn
The Sex Workers Outreach Projectis a national grassroots social justice network dedicated to the fundamental human rights of sex workers and their communities, focusing on ending violence and stigma through education, community building, and advocacy.

The Third Wave Fund
The Third Wave Fund is a national feminist fund ensuring that young women & queer/trans POC have the tools & Resources they need to lead powerful movements.